The new year often comes with feelings of regret and pressure. Are you allowed to set new goals when you didn’t hit the last ones? Do you have to gain some great wisdom from what you lived?

My mind offers me constant reminders of my absolute best badass life. It’s sometimes like a dreamy visioning session that feels like a warm blanket, and sometimes I’m in the deep experience of not having what I want and it’s terrible and disempowering. What’s interesting here is that, either way, I am focusing on it. […]

I ran my first experiment in making money by shifting my emotions 12 years ago. I was on food stamps with twins and barely making it month to month. I listened to the Abraham Hicks money meditation a couple of times a week.  I did my best to breathe through my money fears and not […]

For the third day in a row, I notice that it’s 2 a.m., and I’m still working. There have been no breaks for exercise or time outside. While it may look as though I’ve adopted a certain pattern of behavior, what actually is happening is that I’ve defaulted into a pattern of Being.  I have […]

The Emotional Freedom Technique, commonly known as EFT or tapping, is a method of helping the body gently relieve stress, anger, anxiety, sadness, grief, and all forms of dissonant or negative emotion. Tapping is a wonderful technique that we employ often at Mindlight because it is easy to do, very effective, and individuals can do […]

We all have it: a list of things that, if only they could get better, would make life so much easier. If you were asked in this moment to name 5 things in your life that are annoying, how long would it take you? Pause here to think: What are 5 annoying things that are […]

Being intentional about your perspective is essential in working with emotions. In the video above I talk about taking the perspective of a higher power but that is just one idea. Choosing your perspective on purpose is choosing how you see things, which enables you to choose how you want to respond, how you feel, […]

Emotions are a fact of life. Like most animals, humans have bodies whose main objective is to survive and procreate. Should anything seem to threaten survival, the human body reacts by secreting a dose of hormones and neurochemicals that we feel in our tissue that gives us the signal to take action. It gets our […]

The right place to begin is with the knowledge that you can heal. No matter what you experience in this life, it is possible to come back to a place of safety and wholeness. At Mindlight, we have seen people recover from the traumas of war, sexual violation, adverse childhood events, religious and racial discrimination, […]

Mindlight works in the field of emotional mastery. We see these four aspects of life as a way of organizing our emotional experiences into specific emotional skills.  Resiliency: (Internal, Survival) This is our capacity to recover and heal. To go from de-regulated emotional states to regulated. To expose and feel deeply the full range of […]